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I moved to Saltbourne the summer I turned sixty, for the usual reasons: the flat in London ate my pension, my knees wanted flat ground, and I wanted the sea. Mostly the sea.
I joined the Tuesday walking group because the woman in the post office told me to. Eleven people, most of them my age, walking the cliff path in all weathers. George was the one who made the jokes — quietly, as if he were leaving them on the path for anyone who wanted to pick them up.
2
Talking to George was easy, like walking downhill. By June we were always the last two, at the back of the group, and the group had noticed, and we pretended not to know that.
Then one afternoon, over tea in his kitchen, we did the arithmetic that changed my year.
Calder College, London. I was there from 1984 to 1987. So was he. I lived on Ferris Road; he lived on the next street. We drank coffee in the same cheap places. We went to the same cinema, the Roxy, on the same student nights. And in February 1986, when a pipe burst in the middle of the film and the whole cinema stood out in the wet street, laughing in the rain — I was in that crowd.
"So was I," George said. "We stood in the same crowd, forty years ago. In the same rain."
We did not meet. I was twenty and he was twenty-two, and we stood maybe ten steps apart, and we did not meet.
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I went home that evening and sat with it, the way you sit with big news.
Forty years. I did the sums like a schoolgirl. The marriage I made instead, and the divorce. His marriage — thirty good years, he says so plainly — and then her long illness. Two whole lives. And underneath them, all that time, this other thing: ten steps in the rain.
I cried once, on the Wednesday, sensibly, with the door locked. Then I made tea and thought about it properly.
If I were twenty now, I asked myself, would I even see him? The honest answer is no. At twenty I liked loud men with big plans, and I married one. The woman who could love a quiet man — a man who leaves his jokes on the path — that woman did not exist in 1986. It took me forty years to build her.
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There were two ways to hold it, and I saw them both clearly.
It was a tragedy: the right person stood ten steps away, and the world simply did not turn us toward each other, and forty years went by in the wrong rooms.
Or it was a gift: I am sixty, and the right person is here, now, at the exact time in my life when I am finally able to see him.
You can choose, it turns out. Nobody tells you that. You can stand in front of the two stories and choose which one is yours.
5
On Tuesday, at the back of the group, I told George about the two stories. He listened the way he always listens, all the way to the end.
"When I was twenty," he said, "I was a fool. You were saved from me."
"And now?"
"Now I'm sixty-two. Hardly a fool at all. Whoever finds me now gets me at my best."
We walked on a little.
"It isn't a tragedy, Helen," he said at last. "A tragedy is when the good thing never comes. Ours came. It just walked slowly."
He offered me his arm, in his old-fashioned way, and I took it, and we went down the hill toward the sea, with the group far ahead of us and no hurry left in either of us at all.